Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Summary: I’ve agreed not to have an orgasm without permission and we do not use a chastity device. My wife on the other had is to suffer no restrictions. So last night, we had sex which included a significant amount of time with me penetrating her (which now seems to be her preferred method of coming). When she’d finished, as we have agreed, I removed myself and lay next to her. I was very aroused after the fucking and was really hoping for an orgasm as it was our wedding anniversay. I must have done OK for she said, “I feel I should thank you.” I foolishly said, “You can always say thank you,” meaning that I’d always appreciate a thank you when I’ve performed well, but she misunderstood, said “thank you”, turned over and went to sleep. This is only a week since my last orgasm and that was a really hard experience to get my head round. I don’t know how much longer she intends to keep me waiting but I can’t help feeling my bedtimes would be a whole lot easier if I was locked up and not forced into getting myself all worked up every time she wants fun.