Introductions discussion

It is about time I introduce myself; I have been a member here almost since day one, posting occasionally along the way. I have chatted with several people on CL.

I am a 58-year-old male married for over 30 years to a completely vanilla wife who has accommodated my chastity routine for a while but isn’t deeply interested in it herself. Consequently, I essentially hold my own key and control the device.

My interest in this lifestyle dates back roughly 20 years when I brought home a leather and steel apparatus just to have some fun with it—back then, I didn’t even know what it was called “chastity.” We mostly used it on weekends. Over time, my desire for more grew stronger.

Later, the internet arrived, leading me to purchase a used CB-2000 that I still wear today. I soon found several online communities like Altairboy, Vanilla and Spice, and Lockandkeep among others.

I encountered Mistress Watchful on CL and joined her site as soon as it launched. My interests cover a wide spectrum; I would love to become a sissy maid serving at the feet of an excellent mistress, such as Mistress Watchful, Mistress Michelle, or Mistress Constance. While I doubt this specific scenario will ever fully materialize, it remains a lovely fantasy.

I also enjoy CBT, bondage, femdom, and sex in general. My vanilla hobbies include trains, planes, automobiles, and my new beagle pet.

Regarding daily wear: as long as I keep myself locked up, I avoid masturbation. If the device comes off, however, I tend to do so as often as possible. I don’t wear it 24/7 because my wife prefers that I not wear it to work; she worries someone might discover it. This arrangement has actually worked out well given a couple of minor heart issues where I ended up in the hospital.

Additionally, I skip wearing it while bicycling since the chafing can be excessive.

So there you have it—my chastity life summarized. I have sent out several friendship invitations and hope they are accepted. Take care and stay safe.