Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Spoke with Ma’am over the weekend regarding dimensions… :penisdance: Ma’am believes that the women who claim size doesn’t matter might just being polite…although she readily acknowledges it definitely varies from woman to woman as to what the ideal measurement is… Me… **soft/flacid **13.5cm long x 3.8cm dia. **hard/erect **18cm long x 4cm dia. Ma’am finds my length adequate(barely), but lacking in thickness… Having dated men of varying dimensions over the years, though all larger than me except one Her ideal cock was… 23 cm long (just a smidge over 9 inches) 5cm dia (2 inches across) Her logic is that her current lover is much bigger than this, however she only sees him two or three times a month and that suffices because while she loves it and ends up completely satisfied to the point of exhaustion, it leaves her tender for days afterward. In the earlier years when I was permitted to penetrate her, it was good but not quite perfect. Remembering back to an ex-lover who measured as above, she saw him two or three times a week; it was very very good and she could handle it without the soreness being an issue…she was satisfied receiving it regularly which is what she prefers..:bigsmile: So for the ladies here, what would be your ideal…??????