Introductions discussion

Hi everyone. I’ve been asking a few questions around here and decided it was time to introduce myself. I’m a submissive male, married to my goddess, the love of my life. Our family lives pretty normally with two great kids: an eleven-year-old daughter and a son who is almost nine. A couple of years back, me and my wife started swinging, which has been wonderful, though from day one it was always about making her happy. We had discussed these things in the bedroom for many years before we actually did them, and when we finally got there, it felt magical.

As our sexual openness grew, I eventually revealed a deep secret of mine after knowing her all my life: I enjoy wearing women’s lingerie. She wasn’t exactly shocked, just hesitant. One night she let me try on a garter belt and stockings, but it didn’t really do anything for her visually. So I mostly stopped, and we kept swinging occasionally.

Then one evening, while hanging out with another married couple who are regulars there, my wife was getting quite thoroughly used by the husband. When he finished inside her, she suddenly pushed me onto my back, straddled my face, and made me clean up his cum right in front of them. That moment really opened the door for us to explore this further.

Since then, she has decided that my cock is simply too small for her (and it truly is; I’m not large at all). This led me to suggest a chastity device, and we went with the cb6000s. Initially, I know she only did it to humor me, but over the last three months, she has become very strict about my wearing it. She also completely turned around on her attitude toward dressing; knowing that I wear panties constantly now, and she dresses me up several nights a week. She even sent me out to buy a wig and does my makeup when we are alone at home.

We’re currently looking for a friend-with-benefits arrangement for her. As you might guess, finding the right person is easier said than done because she won’t sleep with just anyone. We want someone who can service her about once a week to meet her needs. I am locked up most of the time now, and she calls me her sissy bitch (we are even shopping for a matching maid outfit). We aren’t extreme; she still loves when we make love together, but usually, it is just me serving her. Despite that, we are deeply in love, with her firmly in charge.

On my days off, I receive a to-do list every morning which must be finished before she returns home, and I genuinely enjoy doing these tasks for her. Anyway, just wanted to say hello and thank you all for the help on our journey so far!