Introductions discussion

This is my first thread here (hello everyone), and it focuses on a major letdown I experienced after discovering how simple it is to pull out of my devices (including the CB6000s, CB6000SS, Holy Trainer, and two Jailbirds—one equipped with anti-pullout pins).

I’ve been part of the chastity world for several months now, and I truly find it appealing. I went through the journey from daring to suggest it to my wife until fully accepting our new dynamic. But up till now, I’m confused by the security aspect. The honor system isn’t enough for me. CBs with insertion seem uncomfortable, though I’m open to suggestions. Getting a Prince Albert… well, that gives me pause. Thanks for all your advice and input!