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I figured I would kick off my first journal entry with a status update. Last Wednesday, April 22nd, I got the new cage—it’s smaller and fits properly. I strapped it on immediately, made a few small tweaks, and have been really pleased since then. So far, wearing it around the clock hasn’t caused any problems; this is day six now.

Before it arrived, my old cage was too loose during the daytime but fine at night because nocturnal erections were causing chafing and sores. Recently, I’d started doubting whether she was really into all of this, so we had a chat. She explained that I’d read things wrong: her ignoring my cock doesn’t mean she dislikes it; it just isn’t top priority for her right now. I’ve handed over control to her, and she’ll do what feels right to her, even if it differs from what I want.

We’re both in our 40s, and since she has had a full hysterectomy, sex doesn’t occupy much of her thoughts. She usually aims for an orgasm once a month or so that’s about the extent of it. Her strict rule is that only she gets to touch my cock, which has been the hardest adjustment. I can handle not orgasming easily enough, but dropping from masturbating two to five times daily to zero contact has been tough. However, she lets me give her full-body massages every night before bed, which feels great.

Today marks six days without any physical contact with my cock (aside from the cage itself), and I haven’t had a ruined orgasm in eleven days either. My last genuine one was 24 days ago.