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I just joined and wanted to share who I am. Subken here, a 52-year-old husband who is both submissive and sissy-like. My wife of two decades practices FemDom and firmly believes that most married men should wear chastity devices around the clock; she’s convinced I fall into that category. We do engage in some regular Dominant/submissive play where I act as her sissy servant, always locked up. She has cuckolded me before and still sees potential for it again.
This past Saturday, she dressed me like a sissy, fitted the CB3k device to my body, and announced that she expects me to commit to indefinite 24/7 wearing starting immediately. I agreed to her terms: there is no scheduled release date, just whatever time feels right for her. Usually, this limits me to two releases each month.
I’ve done okay at keeping her happy with this setup so far, though we’ve argued plenty about how devoted my slave-like service has been. This round, I made sure the CB3K fits well and got myself mentally ready for constant wear.
It’s now been roughly four days since I locked up. The adjustment period is more about getting used to the device itself than enduring long-term abstinence; ten years ago, my tolerance was lower, but it has improved significantly. Getting older helps too because nocturnal erections become less frequent and intense, which makes things much easier. I’ve also decided not to take breaks unless there’s an emergency reason. Cleaning is manageable while still wearing it—I use soap and a handheld showerhead for thorough hygiene. My wife adores the concept of never having to unlock me; she compares my device to her wedding ring—a piece meant to stay on permanently.
While I haven’t felt much pain in the CB3K these last few days, I’ve already ordered a Birdlocked unit, which arrives next week. Until then, I’ll remain fully locked in the CB3K. My hope is that the new device sits less conspicuously and moves with my body rather than digging into me either way seems to indicate an extended period of being secured ahead.