Introductions discussion

Hi all, I’ve received permission from my Goddess Keyholder to join the group. Currently wearing a Silicone tube, but I bought a metal belt in December 2014. My status has been locked since January 2nd, though I did cheat on the 4th. I admitted my mistake and suggested some possible consequences: it could be 20 cane strikes, a fine, or being kept locked longer than usual when release is typically granted. The decision was that I must fund a day trip to France as part of this lesson. I do enjoy the metal belt since cheating in it is difficult, but my Goddess/wife isn’t too fond of it. I also feel like I might not have chosen the best belt for me. It came with a tube rather than a cylinder and uses a rubber tube for drainage.