Female led relationships discussion

The other day at work even though I had showered, my cage smelled terrible. I let my wife/KH know and suggested it would be a good idea to take the lock off for a thorough cleaning. She agreed, but what happened next caught me by surprise. That night we went into the bathroom and kissed around while getting undressed. She teased about how cramped I was struggling with room inside, then unlocked me and told me to step into the shower without her touching. I complied, scrubbed my CB6000s myself, while she stood naked watching, inspecting, and keeping me honest. Obviously being out and free gave me a chance for a good stretch; I was rock hard for the first time in 3 days. Being in that situation unable to touch her was such a turn-on it made me even harder. That is just one of the ways I have been teased recently, she doesn’t do online research or look for ideas herself, so it is basically up to me to tell her about things I have read and ideas I have had (these are conversations about topics not instructions or wishes), however this was not something I thought of myself; she came up with this scenario all on her own. She also confessed that she is reluctant to let me cum because last time we played, I was hesitant going back into lock down so told her a couple of ideas on what to do there.