Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My beautiful Wife is keen on getting a PA so she can rest easy knowing there’s no way out from under my Lori. I’d love to hear about your own piercing journeys—was it good or bad? What type of device do you use, and how long have you had the piercing? Does it effectively keep you “where you belong”? How does healing go for you, and what kind of jewelry did you choose? She’s put me in charge of collecting as much information as she can. Feel free to share a photo of your piercing or device (if that doesn’t cause any issues; I’m not entirely sure about the rules here). Looking forward to your replies. Thanks.