Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

Hello! My wife and I have done this before and we enjoyed it. We are a very happily married couple, love spending time with one another but when it comes to chastity and tasks she is just not into it. My wife doesn’t enjoy normal sex so she has little use for me. Vibrators and oral are her items of choice. We have tried chastity just the two of us but she gets bored, gives up the key easily and gets stressed. If it’s for a day, great, but after that she loses interest. She also does not have a very controlling personality. Well I’m not sure if she loses interest or if she’s just too nice. She doesn’t like to hurt me or put me in any discomfort. HOWEVER… She’s does laugh when I do it to myself or someone else does it to me. Okay, enough about us. We are seeking a Key Holder for me. We have done this in the past and she’s enjoyed having very minimal involvement but watching what things I had to do or the lengths I would go to in order to follow orders. We have agreed to allow almost anything, including adding someone else’s name or saying to a dog tag so that is what she and I both see when my chastity is on display. We don’t care about gender for the Key Holder, just that they are creative and reasonable. We look forward to hearing from you!