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Hi all! I’ve been lurking here for ages and finally decided to join up. I’ll write a proper intro later, but I have an urgent question right now and want to hear from others who’ve experienced this. I’ve dabbled with chastity devices for over 10 years, but this is the first time my wife actually took the key and isn’t showing any signs of giving it back soon. She even forgot she had taken it until I stepped out of the shower this morning wearing it. It’s now day three locked up. I’ve never kept a device on for more than 24 hours because nights were always tricky before. I used to be careful about when and where I wore it, but I usually held onto the key myself. Now that my wife has control and seems happy with it, I don’t want to spoil this chance at a real keyholder dynamic by complaining or asking for an early release unless something urgent comes up or she offers. Things are going well so far. But here is my practical worry. My own children are grown up now and too old to climb on me. However, I have a three-year-old grandchild and an eight-year-old nephew who are very affectionate. When we visit, the nephew loves sitting on my lap for TV or just chilling out. Both of them scramble all over me like it’s a jungle gym. So, if I stay locked up as planned, how should I handle the chance that they’ll feel the hard plastic and ask what’s going on? I’m curious to know how others manage this or have had similar moments where someone discovered their device by touch. I really love my grandchild and nephew and don’t want to disappoint them by refusing hugs or lap-sitting. Any advice would be great. This matters if I decide to wear the device 24/7 without access, which is likely where this will go. Only my wife and one of her closest friends know about it right now. Thanks.