Introductions discussion

Apologies for the flood of posts; I’ve just stumbled upon this spot and lack real-life folks to bounce ideas off. Previously, our chastity arrangement was something my spouse and I handled on our own, without leaning heavily into the online crowd. I frequently see references to FLRs—female-led relationships—and grasp the concept. The lexicon has grown significantly since those earlier days. Wife-swapping is now often called cuckolding, and oddly enough, men seem convinced that Black guys hold all the cards when it comes to impressive endowments.

We don’t put a specific label on our dynamic, but there’s undoubtedly an element of D/s present. It’s tricky to articulate: while I follow my wife’s directives, she doesn’t wield her authority over me just for the sake of showing off. She remains mindful of my feelings and preferences. Pragmatic by nature, if she notices I’m occupied with something significant, she’ll take care of my usual chores herself. We aren’t living in a perpetual sexual daydream; we’re grounded in reality, weaving in our kinks when it fits.

My wife isn’t seeking total control over our entire partnership, only the aspects tied to sex and household management. It’s akin to socialism: each contributes based on ability and receives according to need. This has piqued my interest in FLRs. Is anyone else practicing this? If so, what draws you to it?