Introductions discussion

Despite a strong interest in fetishes, I haven’t spent much time on sex forums. We always knew others who shared our interests or had local clubs to visit. We are now approaching month ten of chastity. Often when chastity is mentioned, cuckolding comes along with it; the two seem like peanut butter and jelly. My wife and I experimented with cuckolding involving both men and women long before video cameras became common—we only used an 8mm film camera if we wanted to keep a record. Reading modern interpretations of cuckolding fascinates me because they are so structured, no matter which site you check. Back in the day, it wasn’t nearly as formal. I mostly watched, drove my wife home afterward, and engaged in oral sex and intercourse with her as often as possible. Now I wonder how different things would have been if I had been locked up during those times.

In the days before AIDS, using the Pill without condoms was our standard approach. It felt much safer despite other STDs around. We only caught a minor one once, from a married woman who claimed it was her first time stepping out! When AIDS arrived, we stopped most outside play except with close friends. Now that we are back into chastity, I updated my wife on modern cuckolding practices, which often include being locked up. She admitted she missed cumming inside me because it made her orgasms more intense. That was the only part of chastity she disliked, but the other benefits balanced it out. However, if I were to do it, she would prefer women; she doubts older men here can last hours or possess sufficiently large penises! She also reminded me that I dislike being humiliated in front of men. True enough. She asked if I really wanted to watch two elderly ladies go at it rather than having the hard-bodied, smooth-skinned encounters of our youth. It was a good point, so we agreed to decide when an opportunity arose.

I see several sissies and others focused on chastity here, so I wonder how many involve other people in their play? Is cuckolding common among those into chastity? I can certainly see the appeal, but given today’s world, it seems like a risky game on multiple levels. Many posts online read like fiction to me, or perhaps few truly worry about AIDS and similar concerns.