Introductions discussion

I’ve been part of this community for quite a while now, yet I never posted because I wasn’t sure what to say beyond just “HI!” Before you ask why not, let me explain. I wanted to research chastity and decide how to handle my desires. Over the past year, I have experimented with it slightly, mostly during short lock up trials that lasted a day or two, sometimes extending to four days. Additionally, I wished to gradually discuss this with my wife. Knowing her well after nine years of marriage, she would want details regarding safety, health, and similar matters. Thanks to this site and the wonderful posts here, I have been able to talk things over with her and begin our journey into lifestyle.