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Hi everyone, Here is another thought to ponder: I wonder how many of you have a ‘bucket list’, meaning a list (perhaps hypothetical) of things you feel you should do or try before you die. I’m sure, like me and my sub, we all have slightly different life experiences. We each find our own turn-ons, and there are some things we might be apprehensive about trying. In my case, I haven’t received oral in over 10 years (partly due to me, partly due to him). Don’t give any disparaging comments regarding this; it’s just an example—actually he wants me to force him into doing this, but I need to work up to that point. Also, I’ve discovered my sub has never given anal. Now, I have received it (many years ago), and I think/feel that at some point he should try at least once to see what it’s like on the giving end of anal. It’s not something I would force him to do; I’d never force him into anything he doesn’t want to do—sex is about pushing boundaries, not forcing someone to do something they definitely don’t want to do. So, my bucket list includes forcing him to give me oral, and his ‘bucket list’ involves getting him to give me anal. With all you chaste friends here, I can imagine there’s nothing you’d like to try but are reluctant to mention or attempt. I’m curious what yours are. I’m also wondering if you guys and gals have ideas for other things I haven’t even THOUGHT of trying, so put your thinking caps on. Don’t be shy; on this site more than anywhere else, you can be completely honest without fear of backlash!