Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I are into teasing and denial. It is the only fetish that my wife actually immensely enjoys. We added chastity to it due to my wife wanting me to go longer between orgasms. However, her idea of a long time was not the same as mine. Since I gave her control over my orgasms all I could do is inform her that I could go longer and was fine being denied. She could not control herself though. After she had a few orgasms she would make me cum even though I was trying not to. She had the wife problem of feeling that she should make me cum for a job well done, especially since I was begging for it as I do any day of the week.:) She already knew that I would beg and plead but really did not want to have an orgasm but just like I sometimes think with my penis, she was thinking with her vagina. She even was very concerned about it being unhealthy for me not to have orgasms regularly. So we went on with ever increasing times between orgasms. For some reason though, my wife would never let me go beyond two weeks. Since it was her call, she made me cum every two weeks and then complained about how grouchy and bitchy I was for the next week. I talked to her and she read articles that all said that even though a man will beg for an orgasm during sex, he really does not want one and will not thank you afterwards. She also was told and read about what happens to a man if he does not have an orgasm for a long time. Despite knowing all this and my bad mood after my orgasm, she felt it was cruel to let me go longer. This last time she had stated that she now was comfortable in denying me and since it was up to her, it would be a long time before she made me orgasm because of the way I was afterwards. I was all set to go two months or so and my mind and body were cruising in a good place where the slightest touch would make my whole body shiver in pleasure. I felt good, was no longer snacking all night so I lost weight and things were very good between us. My wife was having more orgasms in a week then she used to have in a month. Just hearing me moan in frustration/pleasure made her horny even when she was not planning on having an orgasm. She would get into bed with me, fully clothed and then tear them off because she got horny. She kept telling me not to expect her to be easy on me like before but sometimes said things that hinted that she was planning on making me cum in two weeks instead of indefinitely. I think she was just trying to make me think I would not have an orgasm so it would be a surprise to me. I kept reminding her that I was looking forward to seeing how long I could go and how I get after she makes me cum. In fact, when we had one of our weekly ‘sex dates’, which she calls artificial sex due to no orgasm for me, I did not prepare the bed as I would when I was going to have an orgasm. We usually put down a towel and I did not do so. I even kept my CB6000s on when I joined her in bed. Looking forward to a good teasing session, we proceeded. She had two orgasms from me instead of her usual one by me and one by her vibrator. She unlocked me because she said she wanted to hold it and play with it. I felt myself getting read to cum so I pushed her hand away. I did this a second time, telling her again that I was fine without cumming. She just said, and rightly so, that she was in charge of my orgasms so she could make me cum whenever she wanted to. So she did. She has been complaining, as usual, about me being hard to live with for a week after I have an orgasm and not attentive to my assigned household chores and massages. She knew I was unhappy about her making me cum as I had explained to her that doing it every two weeks was like someone going cold turkey to quit drugs and then being given drugs and having to do it all over again, every two weeks. She was more concerned about my orgasms than I was. She did not ask me to lock it up after making me cum so I did not know if she still wanted to continue with chastity. I just stayed in the background but I seemed to annoy her more and more by forgetting to do my chores or not doing them on time. To tell the truth, I was not trying to restrain myself as I usually do after an orgasm. I wanted her to see what she did.:) It is now day five after my last orgasm and I have remained chaste waiting for her to do or say something since she was in control of my penis. I heard nothing and she seemed pissed off with me all the time. I sent her an email as she does not like talking about sex which is strange since she is bisexual and lived a non traditional life and marriage. I asked her if we were still on with the chastity thing we had going. I reminded her that we were both happy and in a good place. I once again explained that I am fine with waiting a few months if that is what she wants, as she often says. I went on to say that if she still wanted to do chastity, I could not do it like before where we repeated a two week cycle all the time. Just when I was getting into the zone, she would force me to cum against my wishes. Then I would feel unhappy and crappy and have to go through with starting chastity all over again and it was just not worth it to have an orgasm just when I was conditioned to go longer, on a schedule that I knew when I would be made to have an orgasm. I proposed that if she felt that she could restrain herself from making me cum, when she did not want me to in the first place, because she felt bad for me, I was willing to give it another go, but this time, until she has her hip replacement sometime in April. I also reminded her that to last that long, I would need to be teased at least twice a week any way she wanted to, even if it was just a foot massage. I said it could be hassle free for her as she could just send me into the bedroom to edge myself over and over again for a half hour while she watched TV. I ended by reminding her how good it was the second week of my chastity, her many orgasms, no need to change the sheets after sex every time, and how both of us were happy all the time and I was eager to please her. She just told me to lock up and prepare for artificial sex tonight. She still cannot accept sex without an orgasm for me as real sex but hopefully that will change in time. So here I am, locked up again and not knowing when I will be released other than before her surgery which has not even been scheduled yet and may happen well after April due to the need to take care of another problem first. I think that this time she fully understands that I will beg for release but really mean no and if she denies me, she makes me happy instead of pleasing me. She also did not like me all week after my orgasm since I did not make an effort to real it in as I usually do. I think I finally got through to her that it is a win-win situation. She gets a submissive man, the opportunity to tease me as she says she loves to do and no more sullen husband. Time will tell but I suspect that she will continue to deny me regardless of my begging for release as she seems comfortable in believing that I will not be sad or mad if she denied me. She does want to deny me for as long as possible so all she has to do is remind herself that this is what we both want and it will not be a health problem for me. The only thing I wanted was to take the CB off at night and when it is bothering me. She knows she can trust me to not masturbate with or without the CB on. This is basically the way we have been doing it and I am the first to say that I need to be locked up. I bet a lot of married guys here have the same sort of problem. Even though my wife accepted chastity and the benefits, she still had that need to make me cum ingrained into her mind and that is what she is struggling with. Gosh, I got erect just writing this and I have to pre

Looks like teasing is coming up soon. Oh my!