Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Like many others, I began my journey with a CB6000s after my wife suggested I get one so she could manage my orgasms and stop me from masturbating on my own. I won’t document the full story here since I tend to write too much just saying hello. Essentially, I went from wearing it continuously for several days, then only during the day, down to just a few hours a week when my wife wasn’t home. I never wore mine out because driving was difficult; sitting in my car seat always hurt my balls, and since I don’t usually masturbate alone at the store or getting a haircut anyway, it didn’t matter much eventually. My wife wanted me to extend the time between releases while using just the cage as needed, without placing too much significance on it—it was simply for preventing masturbation. Being in a D/S marriage with some BDSM dynamics, I already knew she controlled my mind, body, and penis. A crop delivering 25 strokes across my butt served as a clear reminder every time.:)

To sum it up, I realized I didn’t actually need to stay locked chaste constantly. We have wonderful teasing and denial sessions now. After 43 years of marriage, my wife has become really skilled at this. Within a week, I stop thinking about masturbation entirely. Since we have sex two or three times weekly, I get teased through each encounter and share in her pleasure while she teases me; my whole body shakes from the intensity, which was something she noted today. In short, I possess the willpower to enjoy denying myself permission for an orgasm, and I don’t purposely mess up just to be punished because punishment isn’t enjoyable for me—I’m not even aroused during it, it hurts significantly, and leaves my butt sore for days.

So, I am staying in chastity without a device (CD) and wonder if anyone else does the same? Personally, after about a week, an orgasm loses its appeal because our frequent teasing feels so good. As my wife said tonight, even her hand or mouth touching me makes my whole body shake. I don’t want to ruin that great experience for just a momentary release.