Introductions discussion

I signed up for this platform a few days ago… It felt like the right move, given that my husband and I have been experimenting with chastity practices for several years. I’ve left comments on various threads, sharing our personal stories to add value to the community. In doing so, I used a couple of terms that apparently rubbed some more sensitive members the wrong way. These weren’t signs of any intolerance or bias toward others; they were just standard descriptive words—one referring to solo sexual release and another to a male anatomical part—both quite mild in my view. Considering this platform is entirely focused on various non-traditional sexual pursuits: securing one’s genitals, watching (or witnessing) one’s partner being taken by (oops, ‘scuse me… engaging with) another man, receiving urine streams, men wearing frilly underwear and bending over for anal play—I was genuinely surprised when I received a request (through chat) to tone down my language and avoid such “dirty” words. Hypocrisy is the first thing that comes to mind, closely followed by plain weirdness. It’s not as if we’re expecting our kids or grandmothers to sit beside us at the computer screen for a peek inside. Could I get some thoughts from everyone here? Cheers, Harry