Introductions discussion

I met my wife eight years back. We’ve been living in a constant Dom (me) and submissive (her) dynamic since then. After her previous marriage fell apart, she turned out to be exactly what I had dreamed of; she lives for my happiness. When I first found her and took possession, she struggled with insecurity because she hadn’t known the best side of relationships before. She’s tall, beautiful, and attractive, yet she worried about me staying true to her. We explored swinging together so we could act naturally in each role. Wherever she calls me Daddy, people just accept it. I usually let her play with others… both men and women. I loved watching her interact. Part of my psyche resisted getting directly involved with the other woman because I didn’t want to upset my little one. I made mistakes twice when I did engage, causing her distress. It felt terrible to hurt her like that. I also really liked it when she took on an exhibitionist role. She isn’t permitted to wear underwear during outings, often flashing what’s below for us both while we’re out in public. Other men appreciated the sight too. Knowing she was mine and under my control turned me on greatly. Eventually, I suggested she consider a friend with benefits whom she could see and sleep with, particularly when I’m away for business. Whenever she felt confident going out alone with a guy, a couple, or female friends we knew, it really excited me. I’d lie naked in bed, erect, waiting for her updates via text. Once at a bar playing pool, she asked if one of our male acquaintances could join us. He showed up shortly after. She requested permission to be fucked by him right there in the restroom. Yes, I agreed, trying hard to appear calm and authoritative. A few summers past, a friend visited the beach sporting a cock ring. I joked about it, but he remained unfazed, noting how good sex felt with one on. So I ordered mine online—a heavy chrome model that I adored. We’d sunbathe naked while I wore the device around my shaved scrotum and penis. When she placed her well-groomed foot onto my shaft and let it slide over the sunscreen, my member stiffened immediately. This became a routine for us… relaxing in the sunshine, talking, and drinking as her feet pressed against my cock and balls. Once, when she traveled to visit her parents, I got very horny. I stopped by Home Depot and bought several garden hose clamps. At the beach, I secured those clamps tightly around my penis and testicles. The sensation was quite intense, making it obvious that I enjoyed constant pressure on my member. During sex, the cock ring helped maintain firmness and extend our time together. Last year we welcomed our first child. While she worked to recover her post-pregnancy figure, she became self-conscious about her body. She didn’t want to be seen naked, and being sexually active felt somewhat awkward for her. One evening after going out, we returned home slightly drunk. I had her kneel down and sit on my face—I mean literally rest her smooth, round bottom right over me. People call this Queening; I learned that later. It seemed strange at first because although it’s typically a submissive gesture, she was performing it for me by my command. She looked unsure initially. But after having some drinks to loosen up, she really embraced the act, grinding her backside into my nose and mouth while pulling her cheeks apart with both hands. I climaxed powerfully. Later she admitted that being in such a controlling position over me felt unusual. Another night recently, lying together in bed with my chrome ring on, I became aroused feeling her soft thighs against mine. She reached down to hold me. I guided her hand to grasp my swollen testicles as I began stroking myself, one of her hands resting on her lovely breasts. As excitement built, I squeezed harder, and she responded by gripping my balls tighter. It felt incredibly intense. The next day she messaged saying it was ‘very hot.’ So here I stand ……. a Daddy/Dom with a sub/slave. I enjoy having a sexy wife who goes out with other men and gets screwed. Having her sit on my face while squeezing my testicles as I wear the ring suits me well. Am I just overlooking that I’m drifting toward cuckdom?