Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I struggle with Chastity play quite a bit. The issue is that my sexual frustration arouses her, and she achieves her best orgasms when mine precede hers closely. Consequently, I am having orgasms every few days. As she becomes more dominant, it feels like we are engaging in sex more frequently. She adores her vibrator, which now requires battery changes weekly.:) When she first instructed me to wear the CB6000s to stop myself from masturbating, I assumed this would mean fewer orgasms. Instead, my frequency has increased, with three occurring in just two days. I am not complaining because I enjoy as many orgasms as possible get, even if that differs from what others here prefer. Regardless of the sex games we play, an orgasm is always the objective; for both of us, waiting longer does not enhance the experience. We never adhere to a scripted fantasy scenario. We try things out and allow them to evolve naturally. It seems we are moving toward a loving D/S lifestyle. Chastity acts as just a muzzle to keep me nice and horny when she desires sex. Everything appears to be merging together: my sexually submissive nature, our wife-led marriage, T&D play, and Chastity play. I credit chastity play with tipping the scales for my wife. Once she controlled my penis, she fully embraced her suppressed dominant side. However, her control did not mean denying me more than a few days at most. For both of us, Chastity was initially more exciting in theory than in practice. Our early thoughts of building up to long denials of a month or more faded quickly because actually experiencing such prolonged denial wasn’t something we ended up liking. Short-term chastity proved more enjoyable for us, and fun is the goal. The benefit of Chastity play is that it can integrate into almost every other fetish involving control or power exchange. It has been wonderful watching my wife transform from a submissive spouse to the dominant partner she is today. This shift occurred over just two months. Once she tasted what life was like being me, waited on hand and foot, she dove in enthusiastically. It should be noted that I did not begin with a plain vanilla wife; she was willing to try one of my fetishes and discovered her own in the process. I am unsure if she would have tried it at all without this openness to different sexual fetishes. Moving from dominating me in bed to doing so in our relationship is much easier than it otherwise might be. So, while Chastity was the gateway drug leading to a life of submission to my wife rather than the celibate existence I envisioned, I prefer what we have now. One advantage of not rigidly trying to satisfy a fetish exactly as people write about it is flexibility. We also do not maintain a strict D/S dynamic. We laugh, act normal at times, and strive to make it fun for both of us. After all, at our age, the end can come any day, as has happened with some friends. We never take things too seriously; we always try to have fun.