Journals and blogs discussion

… or so I remind my pet on almost every day. And, I thought it would be an intriguing enough title to generate some readership. What do you think? So, where to start … by now I think many of you are familiar with our background. Married, kids, jobs, house — pretty typical (for those of you who might be interested in catching up, check out my pet’s journal (My unexpected life by xcitex2). In fact, his journal is actually what has prompted me to start my own here. I think it’s important that you all get the Goddess’ view of what really happens in our home wink As he has said in his posts, the whole area of chastity play was entirely his idea. Yes, I looked at him like he was crazy when he first talked about it. Yes, the first time that we locked him up I only went along with it so that we could curb his curiosity and get on with our normal lives … that was seven plus months ago and all I can say is that I don’t think our lives will ever be “normal” again. And I, for one, am not asking that they are. Although we’ve had some rough spots and we’re continuing to learn as we go, I have to say that I feel like our marriage is stronger now more than ever. Now please don’t read this to mean that is was failing in any way, because it wasn’t. This, though, has taken our relationship to levels I didn’t even know possible. It’s interesting. The other night we were laying in bed and my pet asked me what I liked most about him being locked up. I’d actually been thinking about that, too. And whereas I get immensely (did I say immensely?) turned on seeing him all locked up in steel and wanting me so badly, there is actually another level of this for me. It’s created a means for me to push myself outside of my comfort zone but still be able to do it in a trusting environment. Failure isn’t as scary and the successes are sooooo much more enjoyable. And as my confidence has grown in this area of my life, I have found that it has transfers to other areas of my life as well. Does that make any sense at all? Well, bottom line, if pet thought this was going to be short-lived, he is sorely mistaken (pun intended — LOL). Well, that should do it for a first post … I need to get back to my pet as the kids are napping and it is “Ass-Play Sunday.” I’ll write more about that later. wink