Introductions discussion

Greetings. This is my first post here. To give some background, I should mention that chastity isn’t really part of my life yet, even though my wife and I have a “Birdcage,” as shown in my avatar photo. We’ve had the device for about two months (she bought it), and so far I have worn it three times - once on arrival day, for roughly 5 minutes just to gauge the feel, another time about four weeks ago during an evening, and last weekend for a couple of hours in the morning. I firmly believe I belong to the “be careful what you wish for” group because right now I think I’m more eager to push this forward than she is. She does like the concept, but she also enjoys playing submissive from time to time (just as I enjoy topping her), so I don’t know if we will ever move into full-time or long-term lock arrangements. The whole idea intrigues me greatly, and I do want to experience the complete range of emotions and sensations that this lifestyle offers, yet I also feel a bit scared when I REALLY consider being locked around the clock. Anyway, I hope to gain knowledge from my time here and learn more about it all from both my brothers who are currently in lockers, and the loving keyholders who manage them. That’s likely one of our traits - my wife and I love each other deeply, and we both struggle with connecting sexual frustration and denial to our affectionate marriage. Until later, Darling (by the way, that is what my wife calls me when she is in Dom mode and I am in sub mode)