Which option would you pick?

I spotted this question posted elsewhere not too long ago and I’m curious what the smarter members here would pick if they had to choose: Is it better (1) to be permitted to penetrate your wife but never reach orgasm, or (2) to be allowed to have an orgasm but never again penetrate your wife (or any other woman)? Wow! Such a difficult decision, yet if I were compelled, I’d go with #1. Here’s another choice: would you opt for (1) having sex with anyone (porn actress, movie star, wife, or others) as frequently and in whatever ways your heart desires for one year, only to have your head chopped off right after that year ends, OR (2) abstaining from all types of sexual or intimate contact with anyone for the remainder of your life?