How to Find Fellow Enthusiasts

My Mistress and I have been fluctuating with chastity for roughly two years, and we both enjoy it. It tends to lose some steam during that time of the month because she allows me to remove the device, making it tough to slip back into our usual routine. However, we’ve chosen to keep things continuous; I remain locked up constantly (with the exception of work trips where airport metal detectors and similar hurdles come into play). Miss wears her key with pride on display, particularly when we are out in public together. Even though she is confident about what we do as a pair, she isn’t entirely sure how to explain exactly what the key does to those around us. I had thought it would be quite alluring for her to share with friends that I am locked up and to see her feeling empowered by our dynamic—boosting her confidence in her body thanks to my total adoration—but we are both a bit anxious about people within our social circle finding out (even though the humiliation factor is something of an aphrodisiac for me). Consequently, we plan to begin with subtle hints toward strangers we meet. Our starting point will be visiting our local sex shop to purchase a larger, harder dildo that I can use on Miss while she wears her strap-on. But recently we wondered: are there other couples out there who would like to connect, at least partially in anonymity, regarding this topic? A setup where wives can update one another on the ups and downs of their chastity experiences. This way we maintain our privacy alongside the thrill of humiliation. Has any couple considered or felt drawn to this approach? Sorry if I’m drifting from the main thread —> we are trying to find a balance between keeping things somewhat hidden while still embracing the anonymity.