Asking about how to get the husband's spouse into chastity

Hello all, I’m not in a pro-chastity or chastity-conscious relationship right now, and our sex life is quite standard. I’ve gone through several “Journey” blogs, and the common thread among those relationships where chastity became part of their lifestyle seems to be:

• There was some mutual exploration of kink previously, even if things were fairly normal before adding chastity
• The wife has a decently high sex drive—meaning she is open to or wants orgasms at least 2–3 times weekly
• She values touch as her primary way of receiving love, so she enjoys plenty of physical attention, whether sexual or not
• They communicate openly about their sexuality My question: are any of you who didn’t fit most of the above criteria still able to get your wife into chastity? If yes, how did you do it? Thank you in advance for your thoughtful replies!

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