Finding doctors who understand male chastity

I’ll get right to the point since I’m new here. Last October (2017), my husband and I decided to start an FLR. Shortly after, he got pierced for a PA device intended to stay in place around New Year’s Eve 2018. Not long after that milestone, we realized he’ll eventually need to see a doctor with the device on or off. However, as he is dedicated to a 24/7 life of chastity (following specific rules), even without the device, anyone can tell something is different down there. There are pale patches where the device covers the shaft and glans. I mostly keep him in metal devices, which gives his penis a slimmed-down appearance. Plus, there’s that elongated piercing hole (which will become more holes once I get an apadravya done).

I’m not sure if this topic has come up elsewhere or if I missed it. Am I making too big of a deal? Should I just say f**k it and let him handle his problem?… Which isn’t really the case since I literally own “it” and basically him now.

I’ve been looking for a primary care doctor intermittently since February or March because I feel having a physician who understands our lifestyle would be beneficial. But where do I actually begin? If you have advice, please let me know. Good night everyone.