Dreams About My Ex and Future Relationships While Caged

Last night I had a dream where I was kissing on the sofa with my ex-girlfriend, and fear hit me as her hand reached for my newly caged cock. Sadly, I woke up right after that moment. It seems like I don’t dream very often, or at least I rarely remember them if they do happen; I certainly don’t recall any about our past relationship, let alone one with a sexual vibe. Naturally, this left me wondering how she would react if she “discovered” I was wearing the cage. Part of me likes to think she really would have been into it, though she did enjoy watching me masturbate. I know that most men here are either in a relationship or have some kind of keyholder, so I’m curious: if your relationship suddenly ended, would you remain chaste? If you were open to starting another relationship, when would the topic of chastity come up (or would it)? Could an unwillingness to participate in chastity be a dealbreaker for you? What about the women? Would you want a man who stays chaste?