Expressing Gratitude

A few days back, my wife and I were playing around in bed until she had her orgasm. She proposed we shower together, something we don’t do often. I asked for the cage to be taken off but kept the ring on. My ring has a small attachment loop that I’ve been hoping she’d use. I brought the short chain with its snap into the bathroom, handed it over, and she clicked it shut! The shower isn’t very spacious so there wasn’t much room for her to guide me around, but I enjoyed every moment of it. We washed each other, rubbed down, and then she began stroking my penis. Since it’s been about three weeks since my last release—and that feels like an eternity—I knew I was going to climax soon.

Without thinking, I said out loud, “I don’t want to come.” She replied, “All right,” and we finished up our shower without further ado. We didn’t discuss what happened until the next morning.

I woke up before her as usual and took a separate shower. When I returned to the bedroom, she was already stirring about, so I cuddled with her for a bit while looking out through the blinds at the beautiful sunrise over the water. Eventually, I pulled the shades all the way back open; we lay there in bed soaking up the view, the colors, and each other.

I brought up our shower from two days ago. Even though I enjoy finishing quite a lot, I also really value sexual tension, and at that moment, preserving my state mattered more to me than having an orgasm. Plus, I wanted to remain ready for intimacy with her while spooning behind her, pressing against her body through the cage bars. She moved happily but was sleepy and drifting back off. It struck me again how much patience chastity has given me. In the past, desire would have driven me mad; if she hadn’t been available, I likely would’ve just masturbated to get it over with. Sharing this realization brought a smile to her face as she pulled up the covers and closed her eyes.

We began our journey into chastity back in April. Like many others here, I found myself constantly nudging her for conversations on the topic. By July, we talked again, where I admitted that my insecurity about whether she truly supported my decision was a major factor. She agreed to give it one full year and revisit the arrangement next July—a perfect solution. Now, with more confidence than ever, I feel sure she won’t want us to return to our pre-chastity ways by then:D