Papageno Securing My Bird

Hello, I’ve decided to begin documenting my experiences in this relatively new realm for me, known as male chastity. Like many couples where I reside, my sexual appetite is much higher than my wife’s, which means I often sneak off to masturbate. The issue arises when she wants sex shortly after I’ve done so; it becomes difficult for me to achieve an erection. (This wasn’t as big a deal back in my youth compared to now that I’m fifty.) Coupled with this is a kinkier dream of mine, and the pieces fell into place just as we approached a period where separation was necessary: we knew weeks ahead that there would be some time apart due to outside circumstances. I realized there was virtually no doubt I’d wank if left alone unless my bird stayed locked. So, I told my wife about my habit of self-pleasure and expressed my wish to try something new to balance our intimacy, explaining the concept of a cage device (CD). Her initial response was negative. A few days passed before I brought it up again. Her reaction remained resistant but less forceful. After repeating the suggestion several times, she finally agreed, and I purchased an affordable chrome-plated unit with three rings in varying sizes online.