A primary disadvantage for men in chastity

It’s quite a major life event, particularly when you are new to it. And there is no one else you can really discuss it with. I share some of my thoughts with my wife, but she gets irritated if I ramble on too much. Plus, our chats happen within the context of her holding the key, which significantly shapes both what we talk about and how the conversation flows. And it’s not a topic I bring up with other people in my life. The discussions here online offer some relief. But they aren’t quite the same as talking things through with friends or family.