Bringing Casket Life To A Simple Spouse

I realize this topic has likely been beaten to death, but since it’s my first time here, I want to share and get genuine feedback from fellow members.

My core fantasies are Cuckolding and Chastity. The catch is that my wife is extremely vanilla. However, I am taking the initial steps and plan to bring up the subject this weekend after reading numerous blogs suggesting you introduce these concepts gradually when she has little awareness of that side of sexuality. Yet, I intend to take a different route. My plan is to reveal all my fantasies (both cuckolding and chastity) at once, then select chastity as our starting experiment.

I’m unsure how she will react or what her response might be. It’s particularly challenging right now because we both work full-time and have a small baby.

Senior members, please offer some advice or links; it would be greatly appreciated.

Also, for those in Toronto/Canada, what is the best method to achieve birdlocking? Is it done online? I am considering starting with this but am uncertain about ring sizing. Please share your thoughts on that as well.

Thanks!