Female Dominance Progression Experiences

I am curious to know if any of you are willing to share your experiences regarding how your Key holder progressed with dominance in their relationships. I have been living in chastity for nearly two months now, and I have noticed subtle shifts in my wife’s behavior towards me; she seems more comfortable making demands or giving me a bit more attitude than she used to. She has completely taken over the bedroom space and guides me regarding what she wants. Previously, she never considered herself dominant within our partnership—it was very much an equal mix, as she is my best friend and the love of my life. However, she does have that A-type personality; throughout her career, she arrived at a level of authority wherever she worked, so I know she strives for leadership and being in charge. Therefore, this might be an easy transition for her over time, and I will really wonder how far she takes her dominance.

One major thing I noticed is her attitude towards me when the device is on versus when it has been off; unfortunately, mine has been off for a little while so my skin can heal. I have had a few problems that I believe will clear up relatively soon now. It appears to me as though she displays more dominion over me when the device is in place. Although I am not allowed to masturbate at all ever when it is down, she seems much mellow then too—or maybe that is just my perception. There have been major changes in what she allows me to do sexually. She knows my goal is always PIV sex. But unless she really wants it, I must come twice before she permits it: one time by her giving me a handjob (which she confessed she loves doing). Usually, she lets me play with her after the first climax because she gets so horny at that point. Then she stops me and continues to pleasure me orally and anally; within minutes, she can get me to come again. I am usually pretty spent by this point, but the more we do it this way, the hornier I remain even after coming twice. I usually cannot get erect again after that moment, even if I still feel a bit of lust, but it makes me want to pleasure her in any way possible, which is often with my tongue.

Throughout our entire 11-year relationship, she never displayed this sort of dominance before; it has really only been these last couple of months. So I wanted to know if any of you guys went through the same thing where your wife could take or leave male chastity at first but then really started loving it. I was hoping to hear directly from Keyholders, though my last post on that topic wasn’t very popular, I guess. Please share your experiences with me regarding how your key holder changed as time went on. I do not know if I could ever get mine to indulge in my deepest, darkest fantasies, but it sure seems like we are making good headway. The only thing I wish there was more of is T&D; I really don’t get a lot of that other than some verbal discipline and a hot make-out session every now and again.

Either way, I love this lifestyle and cannot wait to get my cage back on! Please share your thoughts and feelings regarding your partner’s change during your time in chastity. Thanks!