Secure those relaxed wombs with a lock

I enjoy guys who insist that because they have small penises, they deserve to be locked up or cuckolded, as if penis size is the most critical factor in masculinity. It gives me even more pleasure when I read claims like “my tiny 7” inch cock can’t satisfy my wife.” Buddy, it’s not your shaft causing issues. My own was around 6.5 inches. With that average length, I made women’s eyes roll and toes curl while they screamed in ecstasy, begging for mercy as their orgasms piled up. Plus, many appreciated how well they could deep throat me, which felt sexier than just licking the tip.

For some reason, a lot of men believe every woman craves a large shaft, pointing to studies that simply asked women about their preferences. Now it’s not enough for the penis to be big; it must also be black because white males are seen as inferior in every way. When does maturity and intellect finally arrive? A recent study using 3D models revealed most women preferred a 6-6.5” shaft but overestimated its size, calling it large and comfortable for consistent intercourse. They noted they might try a bigger one for novelty, but often found themselves sore the next day due to discomfort. An average-sized partner is usually better for steady sex with their lover.

Interestingly, when viewing men of various heights and sizes, the preferred shafts weren’t based on actual measurements alone but were proportional to the man’s body size. This is good news since women tend to overestimate penis dimensions—a true gift from nature.

I’ve noticed small penises are often used as justification for being locked up, dominated, humiliated, and cuckolded. Men with “small” shafts assume their partners need a massive cock for satisfaction, blaming their size for marital boredom or issues. But is the shaft really the culprit, or perhaps a loose vagina? After bearing children, women’s vaginas often become looser. My wife never had kids and was petite, so I became accustomed to tightness while her friends were more relaxed. Did they feel humiliated, treated as less than “real” women, or like my slave because their relaxation meant fewer intense sensations compared to a tighter partner? No. We just found what worked for us without treating it as a major problem requiring the extreme actions some men think they deserve due to small penises.

Why is that? Do some men avoid digging into the psychological roots of their fetish, opting instead for physical explanations? Consider the “bigger is better” mindset: a larger shaft must be superior because it reaches deeper and stretches further. Fisting does this too, though not all women enjoy it. We create excuses for our sexual needs that sometimes just serve to deceive us. Is sex with breast-heavy women definitely better? Yes if you believe so; otherwise, maybe not.

Returning to the vagina: I’m not talking about returning physically but rather examining whether we judge partners by vaginal size. Rarely do men complain their wife’s vagina is too big, leading them to seek other lovers or lock her in a chastity device. So how do you view this small penis excuse often cited in certain fetishes? Consider saying, “Honey, I want you to lock me up because my shaft can’t please you, and it benefits us both.” Do we stop seeking the true psychological reasons for our preferences once we find a physical one?

Don’t forget your brain is your largest sex organ. Look at how aroused you get watching porn; some clips excite more than others due to mental stimulation. I learned early that what you say, do, and act like greatly influences how well your partner perceives your performance during intercourse. Some women were already wet before contact. Let’s not use shaft size as a convenient excuse for deeper flaws we fail to address because we don’t realize they need fixing. We can also be more realistic about our desires.

I used the “it benefits you” line with my wife when I wanted chastity myself, so I’m no exception. Eventually, understanding my true motivations leads to better intimacy and relationships. Don’t just read online stories thinking small shafts solve all marital woes by locking up wives or having them sleep elsewhere; in reality, it often isn’t the case.

People think women are complex, but a man’s penis is too! Just as we don’t reject partners because of vaginal condition or size, we must stop assuming our shaft justifies every demand. Knowing why I want something results in superior sex life quality. If we blame the cock, we miss real issues behind shortcomings. A larger woman can seem incredibly sexy through demeanor and words. My best sexual experiences were with BBWs. One Mistress grasped my true BDSM reasons; she would talk endlessly, making me feel her pain more than it actually was—like telling a patient an injection will hurt significantly versus barely hurting at all. People react based on expectations.

I’m not sure why I went off this tangent, but perhaps the last post about deserving lock and cuckoldry due to a small 7” shaft sparked it. His wife deserved more while he endured humiliation, even having sex with men despite claiming no attraction toward them. My wife loved watching me with others and firmly stated she wasn’t bisexual—but guess what? She is now! Sometimes we hide our true motives well.

A gay friend mentioned a straight guy who denied any intimacy occurred after their encounter, acting as if it never happened. Let’s stop excusing ourselves by pointing to the shaft for all sexual woes and discover actual causes and solutions. Fixing them rarely involves lengthening penises or tightening vaginas.

P.S. - I understand pretense versus reality. If you aren’t sure your penis is small, humiliation feels excitingly erotic. But if you truly believe it’s too tiny causing problems, humiliation becomes harsher, and seeking it might signal low self-worth. Never let others attack genuine respect or value. My wife and past Mistresses understood this distinction: the game attacks male ego without crushing true worth.