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My wife and I have been together for nearly two decades, deeply in love. We both work professional jobs, raise two pre-teens, and lead hectic lives. Our intimacy has hit a rough patch recently, largely because of our tight schedules and the need to catch up on sleep.
A recent occurrence highlighted this issue with our sex life (or lack thereof). I’ve been studying chastity devices for years and finally gathered enough courage to bring it up with my wife about two weeks ago. After some honest talks where she looked over the web links I sent her, we decided to order a Holy Trainer.
She seems quite receptive to the idea and has already started dropping teasing remarks since our initial chat (“Oh, just wait until you see what I make you do… I said it, and I hold the key,” etc.).
The Holy Trainer V2 arrived, and we finally unboxed it this evening. Now I’m sitting here locked up, figuring out how to manage all of this. My plan is to get used to wearing it for a few days while having access to the key if needed. After that, we’ll test out some shorter periods before our upcoming trip to NYC over the weekend.
She has set the rule: I can only wear it when she permits. Tonight, she refused my help with her pleasure as well. We are just beginning this journey and wanted to share our experience and ask for advice—suggestions, warnings, anything you have?