Thoughts on how secure this really is

I am just five days into my first time in chastity - with my wife holding onto the key. I have some thoughts on “security” that I never really saw clearly stated on the blogs or general info I’ve read. I was a bit disappointed when I realized for myself that my CB6K could come off even without the key. I’ve also read that there is no trapped-ball device that can’t be removed with a cold shower and soap. What a lovely thing if it were truly impossible to remove easily. But given that thought, not all hope is lost. There are other “locks” besides the actual padlock. For one thing, if you break the rules, your keyholder might lose interest and give back the key. The ultimate fail. So here’s the good news I didn’t know before. The device is actually VERY secure. When your mind is rational, the “lock” provided by the game’s rules is plenty adequate. At those times, I WANT the device on my cock, and I want to fulfill my wife’s wishes. But at those times when testosterone overtakes me, and I desperately want that damn thing off so I can cum… there is no way in hell it could ever come off because the compression caused by my thwarted hardon makes removal impossible. So it can be defeated when you don’t mind being defeated, but it cannot be defeated when you need security most. It’s actually perfect.