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I felt like it was time to start keeping a “journal” record. Over the last week, we seem to have hit a turning point in our dynamic where my wife is much more keen on dominating me. We had an absolutely FANTASTIC conversation about sex on Saturday (around 45 minutes of uninterrupted and open discussion) and I feel like we are finally “on the same page” regarding how we communicate desires and put them into practice.
It would take a while to detail my background in female domination and the years of trial and error that brought us here. Suffice it to say, I’ve made plenty of mistakes along the way but have come to appreciate how well our needs align.
To sum up quickly: she enjoys controlling my orgasms but never quite took to the physical chastity device (I own both a mini-birdlock and a CB-6000S). Recently, however, she has become more assertive in extending my denial periods, stating that perhaps just once a month is “all I need”.
Last Tuesday night, after I brought her to climax with oral sex, she confidently declared she was “upset with me” (she actually wasn’t) and wanted me to lock up immediately. I was stunned; this was something I had desired for ages while she seemed uninterested. I complied and have been locked ever since. She has made it clear that I am not getting unlocked anytime soon.