What My Wife Wants to Know About Chastity

I’m not sure my wife will ever develop the same deep passion for chastity that I have, but we’ve been together more than 13 years now. She has appeared increasingly interested and assertive over time. Last year, we managed to stay locked up for more than 50 days under the “honor system,” though her libido had dropped significantly in recent months of pregnancy. While she clearly enjoyed knowing I was abstaining from masturbation, it wasn’t entirely clear if that abstinence felt erotic to her back then. What seemed to benefit her most was my improved behavior.

This year, with our small children still posing a challenge, her sex drive is slowly returning as we dip back into chastity after a break. I’ve spotted several good things happening. First off, she’s more confident in showing affection, and it feels hotter than before. Our greetings and farewells now involve more hugging and kissing. She also seems to carve out more dedicated time for us just being together.

She is much bolder about using her Hitachi as well. Since January started, she has used it at least once a week, asking directly without any shyness. This round feels like there’s more tease and denial involved. Last night was particularly clear: she firmly stated that only she would get an orgasm right away.