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Hello everyone…yes, I am new here. My journey began when I was searching for ways to add some excitement to the sex life with my wife. She naturally has a Dominant side, so this kink fits her perfectly. I proposed it to her, and after a quick browse of our favourite Toy site, we found several options. She picked out a hinged ring Chrome Cage. The problem was that it only came with two rings, both of which were Uncomfortable for me, and the cage itself felt just too long. I have now spotted a larger ring to fit better and also a shorter Chrome cage option for another day down the line. The lesson is learned: we ordered a CB6000s and it is WAY superior. Within two days of full lock-up my wife has taken complete control. She informed me that there will be no release, orgasm, teasing, or denial—or anything else—until she decides otherwise… meaning I am in for a long weekend. My Keyholder has come up with a Cunning plan as well. It involves a 7-day spreadsheet listing 23 tasks that need to be completed daily around the house and specifically for her, such as Foot massages (when she is not working on certain days). Each duty includes an (Approved) tick box. Once I complete each task, she will Inspect it and determine whether or not she approves. Once 11 of the duties are done in a day, she can decide what happens next or simply choose to ignore my progress entirely. The whole system still relies on her random choices designed to frustrate me daily as much as possible according to her whim. She already enjoys watching my frustration since I have a VERY high sex drive while she remains pretty normal but controlled. Let us see how things play out on Sunday (tomorrow).