Chastity - through preference or imposed?

Hello everyone, We’ve all been locked up for anywhere from a few days to several years, sometimes continuously. Some of us get breaks; others don’t. The shared element here is that it seems like we’re all really enjoying “Living the real life under lock and key”. I’m just wondering about a couple of details. Hope you’ll share your stories.

1. Who brought up chastity? Was it you or your Key Holder partner?
2. What was your / their first reaction?
3. Who chose the cage/belt for you? You or your KH partner?
4. Nowadays, who likes ‘you being chaste’ more? You, your KH partner, or both of you?
5. If given a choice, would you stop this lifestyle?