Wife Dislikes My Device - What's Our Next Move?

My CB6000 arrived today. My wife let me get it as an anniversary gift, even though she wasn’t thrilled with the idea; she agreed to a thirty-day trial. (For context: nine months ago, I suggested we start our femdom dynamic after years of marital ups and downs. She now controls our sexual life while I handle domestic duties. It’s working well—I rarely ejaculate and enjoy the constant state of arousal. Meanwhile, she gets her orgasms twice a week on her own terms.) We had dinner for our anniversary, and she seemed more open to it, but once we got home and I was locked up, things shifted. As I performed oral sex on her, my penis felt like it might burst out of the device and my scrotum turned blue. She asked how it felt physically; I told her that while it is tight, there’s no pain, and psychologically it feels great since she gets what she wants from me without a full erection interfering. However, she declared she hated it. To her, it was just plastic blocking sensuality, focused too much on my pleasure rather than hers. She argued that if I truly wanted to submit, I should please her, not indulge myself, and asked what the next artificial step would be for our eroticism. When I offered to remove the CB6000, she replied, “No, find out how other couples handle it when the wife is put off by the device.” So we need some advice!