Initial looks at the device while wearing it versus displaying it separately

While I wait for my Jailbird to arrive I have been pondering the following. Given my wife is kind of been turned of chastity to a degree because of the icky state of my CB6K, however when she knows i am wearing it she does tend to take advantage of it insisting on massages amongst other things (so long as the icky thing does not touch her). So given I had permission to buy a new device “if you have to” although if she knew the cost there is no way…lol…I would like some advice on how best to “show her” my new non icky device. Should I show her the pristine device out of the box (although I want to wear it for a few days before I show her to to make sure its all good and I can actually wear it)…or should I show her once I am wearing it…ie with it on. BTW I don’t wax or shave down there, I do not think that waxing or shaving would do much to impress her, she would probably just think I am weirder than ever, and hairs don’t bother me.